Wednesday, 29 February 2012

The end of my visual feast--for now

My trip here is over. Where did the time go?  This truly was a work trip and I had very little time to get around.  I only had tea at the Taj the one time, and didn't even do the full tea.  No caves, no Crawford Market;  I guess I will have to come again.  This time I will try to tack on some personal travel days.  It is truly a country worth seeing.

I think one of the things I enjoy the most is that it really is a feast for the eyes, both good and bad.  There is an interesting picture around every corner.  It's very common that if a man has to pee, he pulls over and goes for a pee.  It used to shock me, but then became a bit of a game that on the way to and from work, how many men would be peeing?  Six was the most and that's a pretty impressive number considering the drive to work is perhaps five kilometres at best.  (And to be clear, that is part of the "bad")

The good is all over the place.  The little markets with carts of neatly arranged fruits and vegetables, the moldering buildings, my constant amazement of what can be delivered on a bike, or the two guys last night on a motorcycle, one driving and his passengers holding two enormous branches of bananas.  I particularly love the women in their brightly coloured saris and never get tired of looking at them.  Even the everyday ones that I see are gorgeous and they are very flattering on all sorts of body shapes.  The women just look graceful and dressed up, even though it's just daily wear clothing.

In the mornings seeing the kids in their uniforms on their wait to school also made me smile.  The girls tended to wear these rather shapeless sort of dresses, but almost all of them wear their very long hair in long braids and then looped up and tied with huge, brightly coloured ribbons.  They are so cute looking and already true Mumbaikars as they somehow navigate themselves and their small siblings through the crazy traffic.

On the weekend, I often see flower bedecked cars that are bringing either a bride or groom to their wedding. This past Sunday, on the way to lunch at the home of one of my colleagues (which was delicious and a lot of fun), my cab got stuck in a traffic jam.  As we made it past the blockage, I saw a young groom getting out of the car and everyone crowding around him.  It was colourful, loud, and a total pleasure to see.

As much as I'm looking forward to home, bed, family and friends, I will miss this place.  Because this was the second time around, it was much less "scary" and that much more easy to navigate.  It doesn't take long to establish a routine and with the odd exception, pretty much ate Indian food for a lot of the trip.  My one "treat" for western food was, strangely enough, McDonalds.  I think that was because I discovered their spicy paneer sandwich and that they have my beloved Thums Up cola as one of their fountain drinks.  Their paneer sandwich was basically a square of deep fried paneer, lettuce and a spicy, creamy sauce.  Seriously good and so cheap.  The meal deal with fries and a drink is about $2.50.

I play this silly game with myself when I travel of  "Could I live here?" and for some strange reason, Mumbai gets a yes. Perhaps not forever, but if I had to for an extended period of time, it would be do-able.  I've even picked out my neighbourhood. :)

Of course, that everyone I've met here is so gracious and helpful makes that question easier to answer.  I have never met a group of people more generous.  I am in everyone's debt and even though they won't hear of it, I am eternally grateful.

And just to close, some pictures that I like.  The dog is "my" dog.  She's the one that was pregnant when I was here last August and actually remembered me the first time our paths crossed again.  I was so pleased, I bought some dog treats for her at the grocery store, which she happily gobbled up.  Sorry, no peeing men pictures. :)


























Monday, 27 February 2012

Baby Falak update

Good news on the Baby Falak story.  I was just browsing and found an article that she's off a ventilator and more responsive.

http://zeenews.india.com/news/nation/battered-baby-falak-responding-to-treatment_760946.html


Sunday, 26 February 2012

Ants in my pants

Not literally, but actually ants in my bed.  I had  a very bad night where something kept biting me.  I thought bedbugs, but no, it is tiny little red ants.  I've got about a dozen or so bites on my shoulders and back.  I don't know where they came from, but I itch like crazy.

So off to Google to learn more.  I found this story from last year.  It's really not related at all to this post beyond the ants, but it just blew me away.  Even if you don't read the whole link, read the last paragraph.  WTF?

http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2011-09-01/kolkata/29953331_1_ants-baby-girl-exhumed

Saturday, 25 February 2012

It's already my last Saturday here...

I don't know where the month has gone.  It's my last weekend here.  It's been so busy, I haven't even had time to feel homesick.  I did a little bit of pre-packing organization.  I have a tendency to spread out in a hotel room, even if it's just for a night or two, so after a month here, I have officially moved in.  Aside from the little bits and pieces that I've purchased, things just take up more space on the way home.  I brought along my trusty, folding duffle bag and I am very glad I had that little bit of foresight

Since I haven't had much of a chance to do more than sit on my butt all week, I took a long walk.  I have noticed a market that pops up on Saturdays about a mile or so away, so I thought I would walk over and look around and take some pictures.  I got lost though and it wasn't on the corner I thought it should be.  So I walked to another corner, not there either.  Oh well, maybe it just wasn't there, but it's more likely I was a block or so away and just couldn't find it.

It was a great stroll, regardless.  It is sunny out, but it wasn't too hot; maybe around 27C (about 80F for my American friends) and early enough not to be busy.  I had lunch at my favourite outdoor veg restaurant and just a had a very pleasant time.

One thing truly stood out.  It was the billboards for a wedding that's happening in the neighbourhood.  Yes, that's right, full size billboards announcing the big day.  I walked by the huge outdoor venue where it was being set up.  Of course, being India, this elaborate wedding is beside some shacks with a small smudge fire going that are beside a stinky canal.  Just the perfect collide of all the worlds.  I wish Mahesh and Manisha all the best.  I wonder if I could do the same for my birthday? :)








Tuesday, 21 February 2012

Baby Falak

There is a news story here that has been going on for as long as I've been here.  It's horribly tragic and really shows the worst side of people.

The short version of this story is that Falak, a two year old girl was left outside of New Delhi hospital so physically abused that whether or not she survives has been touch and go for the last three weeks.  She was bruised, bitten, branded on her cheeks and has suffered brain damage as a result.  Every morning the paper has an update on her condition and the whole nation seems to be behind her.

The story on how she got there is equally horrific.  A man has been arrested for handing over Falak to his 14(!) year old girlfriend as part of a human trafficking ring.  Falak's biological mother was forced into prostitution by her husband, before running away.  From what I've gathered, the mother was then sold to another man, and her children taken away from her.  Falak ended up with the man who was arrested and his young girlfriend and it is apparently the girlfriend who beat the child.  But then, the 14 year old had escaped an abusive father to end up with a man who raped her repeatedly for three days before pimping her out to his customers and she took out her own frustration with her situation on Falak.

The whole story is stomach turning and is a sad tale of the state of women in this country and, I would say, of disenfranchised women around the globe.  I've done a bit of Google searching and it seems to be news only here.  I am always shocked that even though we can make such huge strides forward in the rights of women and basic human rights, this kind of abuse continues.  These women are victims just by virtue of their sex and their poverty.  Even if they could escape, there are very few places where they can go for help here, if they even know of their existence.

Here are some links.  The entire story is a bit convoluted and I've noticed different new sources will post slightly different angles on the same thing.  I've been following IBN.

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/baby-falaks-brain-infection-starts-subsiding/231235-3.html

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/baby-falaks-brain-infection-starts-subsiding/231235-3.html

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/man-who-abandoned-baby-falak-arrested/229145-3.html




It's hot!!! Finally!

Just to rub it in to all the people enjoying a lovely, cold winter, the daytime high here today was 36C!  It was beautiful out.  Now if only I can get some time outdoors, I would be really happy.  I can't wait for the weekend to be outside and work on my "tan" (I think that I might be slightly more pink than my usual pastiness).   I've discovered that I can sit in the sunshine of the rooftop restaurant completely undisturbed until the hotel staff start setting it up for service in the late afternoon.  It's like a little oasis.

Here is the forecast for the next few days.  I find it interesting that for today (Feb 21), the description of the weather is "smoke".  Today, like yesterday was very hazy.

http://www.theweathernetwork.com/weather/inxx0026



Sunday, 19 February 2012

New Shoes!

I'm actually not feeling well today.  I woke up with a very sore throat, runny nose and achy body.  Unfortunately, I did have to go out a bit and on the way home, I stopped off at nearby mall to head to the drugstore to grab a couple of things that I am running low on and have a bite of lunch.

Since I was there, I also had a poke around a few of the stores to get a few small presents to bring home.  Since I happened to be walking by a shoe store,  it just seemed wrong not to go in. :)

For the most part, I'm not in love with the shoes here.  Most of them are slip ons and are like flip-flops; they have that thing that goes between the toes, which I always find kind of uncomfortable.  Everyone here wears them though and I've noticed that women actually have a little gap between their big and second toes from wearing them since they were small.

I did happen upon a nice pair of red shoes with an espadrille-type heel that fit like they were made for me.  I was just thoroughly pleased to find a pair of shoes in my size and then thrilled that they fit and were a good price--about 45 dollars.

I happily made my way  out the store and then happened by the sale rack and there was another pair--sort of a patent bronze.  Same brand, same size, so I had to try them on.  Also a perfect fit.  And the price made them worth while--399 rupees, so about 8 dollars.  Love it and love the shoes.